You Are Only Human, So Stay Human

People come and go, but can’t you be the one that stays?

This letter is written to myself with all my heart. 

Hello, you have tried again and again, but always failed. How are you now? Does this question make you sad? If the answer is "yes", it's okay. Because acknowledging your emotions is an important step in facing life. I hope you can find a way to accept the things that you can't control. Remember that everything that happens is actually an expression of love for you in some way, even if it may make you feel painful. Because it is those emotions that prove that you are deeply loved.

Maybe you will understand this sooner than you think, but life will always bring some surprises. So be prepared in advance. This is the essence of love and the meaning of life - the love that God has given to each of his servants, even if we often find it difficult to see the positive side of it. When your body is shaking, your voice is choking, your breathing is uneven, and even your eyes are swollen from crying, have you ever tried to hug yourself? These physical reactions are actually supporting you in different ways and making you feel their importance. Whether it is happiness or sadness, they are reminding you that you are not alone.

Do you think that love only comes from others? 

In fact, it is in your body, flowing freely. Learn to take care of yourself and cherish these emotions, because when the outside world tries to take away your definition of happiness, only this inner love will always accompany you. 

When you look in the mirror in the morning, I hope you will no longer see those scars and no longer be dragged into endless thoughts by them. But even if you see them, I hope they will become a symbol of healing the heart, not a source of guilt. Please treat yourself with love, instead of waiting for others to heal you. 

There are no perfect redeemers in the outside world, only people who try to live with wounds. Some people choose to heal themselves, some people escape with wounds, and some people show their pain publicly to try to seek attention. But I hope you will be the one who heals yourself silently. If someone is willing to come into your world and heal you, it is because they really want to, not because you beg for it. Please believe that there will always be someone whose goal is just to be a good person, both to himself and others. He will find you, and you will find him.

In the process of chasing desires, don't forget to pay attention to those small and beautiful moments. They will make you realize that life is not just the way you planned. Maybe just a simple greeting, or even a smile, can become the best memory of the day for you and others. I hope you will become a complete and real person, and don't force yourself to pursue a certain result. Accept the surprises in life, because everything that happens has its own meaning. Even if you encounter a similar problem one day, it doesn't matter, you can still use the same answer to deal with it. Failure will not stop life. As a person who cannot control everything, finding your own victory is the most precious part of this journey. One day, when you look in the mirror again, you will find a brand new self - a self who has let go of the past and learned to reconcile with life. By then, you are still alive and beautiful.

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